I’m guessing that most couples who have posted on here are in pretty intense d/s FLR’s….and i assume they’ve grown and developed over time….Did you begin as a typical couple when dating? I’ve seen ppl, mostly sub men, posting on various places looking for FLR’s, but this kinda seems like a real long shot, ya know? Tryna meet someone for a real relationship, based solely on that dynamic? what about everything else?

Ok, here’s what i really wanna know…..anyone dated, and she wasn’t dominant, in fact, she’d leaned far more submissive than anything, and then after sharing fantasies etc and after a while together, she ends up trying out the domme role, and discovers that she loves it?

Because in all my 40yrs, I’ve never met a dominant women, well dominant in bed anyway. Sure i’ve had girlfriends who indulge me, and take that role, but every single one of them is still much more turned on being dominated🤷‍♂️

It’s weird too, i don’t think my day to day personality is very dominant, lol, not at all actually