So me and my gf started our FLR around 3 years ago now. I think it’s taken time for her to develop, as you’d expect. But I think she’s always been to focused on the sexual part of it. Kinda like she struggles to disassociate basic acts of service and devotion with sexual feelings which made it feel dirty to her. But I think she may have gotten past that now.

What I’m seeing in her recently is more appreciation for the non sexual bits and I’m really enjoying it. Also we were watching a bdsm doc recently. And there was a lovely couple on it and a domme said in a loving way that she owns her sub and my gf was smiling at this and looked at me and said the same and it was really a warm feeling. She always calls me a good boy when my head is between her legs but once or twice she’s called me a good boy in an everyday setting and I think this is eve I sent progress of her development.

I’m seeing a major confidence boost in her recently. This week our intimacy is through the roof and been very spicy, of course I haven’t always got release but hey I’m really happy that she’s at a stage now where she doesn’t feel the need to be a people pleaser and reciprocate.

Onwards and upwards I hope