okay so I’m wondering how do you all keep dealing with the little time wasting men and frustration?

so previously I had a sub finding me on this account kind of by accident. he introduced me to findom, a while of conversations, some sends and draining later and he was gone. it left me feeling certain way, but also made me hungry for certain dynamic. I had a second account on reddit made a while ago where I’d sporadically sell some feet pics when in financial emergency so I decided to log back on it and use it and a site specifically for kinky folks to find what I’m looking for. I got all hyped up thinking about the dreamy dynamic I’d want, but all I keep getting is straight up time wasters. I want the control and financial part, but I also want certain dynamic and I get people all happy chappy messaging me telling me how they like what I’m looking for, just for them to be wasting my time for as long as they can stretch it and hoping or even more trying to demand to get it for free. 😆

I know some of you expect tributes quickly to weed out the time wasting pos quicker, but when is it the right time? Because like I’m saying, I want both financial aspect as well as certain dynamic I’m craving. I mean, I wouldn’t say no to someone randomly sending me money for nothing either lol but I also want to find the dynamic for myself.

I feel frustrated and angry. It’s like searching through piles of shit to find what you’re looking for lol I got all excited for nothing. 😂 Any tips?