I'm curious, as a sub, why you got into findom?

For me, as a Domme, it gets kinda heavy. Daddy issues is probably the first thing. 😂 And all my life I always wanted to feel "loved" by men. I always needed their attention, good or bad. I was very much a push over for men. Until my last 2 long term relationships. I was being treated like absolute garbage. That's when something switched in me. I grew tired of being walked over and such a push over to men. I deserve WAY better treatment. I have total control over my partners finances over the last 3 years, to the point his paycheques get direct deposited into my bank. It's empowering to me. I am in control. Things got rocky, and that's when I found out about Findom. And here I am. I have met so many neat people. Made some connections that grew outside of findom. I genuinely adore all of my subs past and current.

I would love to hear both sub and Dommes reasons for getting into this kink?!