Trying to figure out how to navigate talking to subs. I like to actually talk to people and figure them out / build a connection, so I don’t really ask for tributes or money upfront - as people thought I was just in it for the money .

HOWEVER

It means that i’m just talking to men for free , being told that after a connection is built they’ll be able to spoil me, but then being left on read when the time comes to pay up 😭

Only ever had one finsub and that was about a week ago, sent a little tribute of £20 and then disappeared 😔

How do I find a balance in this? I want to build connections and find long term people to talk to but i’m kind of tired of selling myself short, not showing my worth :/