I took time off to regroup. Life… am I right?! Admittedly, I’m not on a lot of social. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t give a lot of access to myself and believe that he’ll attract the right subs when we are ready to collide!

That being said. I meandered on over to Fet… set it up out of curiosity to fish around in a new pond. Was VERY clear about who I wanted to interact with (women) and I was inundated by men. Go figure. On a personal level, I’ve used dating sites to look for connections not related to Findom. But my oh my, the amount of men coming through (cuz I haven’t changed the setting yet) is astounding. Flattering to be sure, but those who call themselves “sub” or “cuck” have been so disappointing! Pic collectors, time wasters, unsolicited pic senders… unreal.

I’m not in Findom to sustain myself financially, it’s kinky and I LOVE it (so come at me subbys) but if you’re fortunate enough to have a loyal and legitimate sub out there Goddesses, count your blessings! A sub who understands the etiquette, shows you effort and ALWAYS wants to please his Goddess is a REAL MAN! This is true of personal relationships as well.

I’ve dealt with many frogs, many frauds and at the moment meditating on my ideal sub (I know you’re out there)… I only mean to say this, YOU ARE ALL GODDESSES!!! Women are divine no matter your background/beliefs… know you are worth the goodness that GOOD men out there are willing to give. Keep going mamas… they will find you. The universe has a way of conspiring in your favor 🙌🏼