Not sure if this is an advice request or discussion.

I think I might need to cut off one of my subs. They're in a debt contract currently, along with this I pepper in the occasional FemDom element, nothing crazy just to keep them on their toes and all in agreement with what we both discussed initially.

Last week I received a message from said sub, explaining they needed a few days away - work commitments etc. absolutely fine, 5 days later they return with a confession...they were planning to ghost and have disposed of all their toys and implements we had been using.

This was after indulging me in a game then taking far too long to pay what was owed and repeated empty "sorry Goddess" replies.

The disrespect on all levels over the last couple of days has been obsurd. I've told them I need a few days to consider how to move forwards.

Has anyone ever come back from this with a sub? I understand they had a wobble but I've been more than clear from the start that they can communicate with me. I've never experienced this particular scenario before.

My gut says to cut it off but am I being directed to that by my current mood towards the situation....