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So, a lot of people here are seeking advice, but most people here can only give the perspective of a dominant woman selling content. That is valuable and useful, but it gives you no insight to how you look from an outside perspective, meaning no woman can tell you what a man might think of your profiles and what the red flags are from a personal experience. They can only give you population based insights based on their clients (and their target audience might not overlap with your target audience in the first place if you guys have different aesthetics and domming style). So I want to open this thread up for people seeking that feedback of a more personalized male perspective, not just for me to comment but other maledoms or the subs that we all know are lurking. While you can talk to your subs for this, and I do encourage that kind of open and honest dialogue, I do think the power dynamic inherit in this kink means theyre less likely to be willing to critic you and you'd be less likely to take them seriously if they did. Theres no power dynamic involved here and so this is coming from a place of someone neutral who is willing to tell you things you might disagree with rather than just saying youre perfect and should change nothing.

A bit about me so you can know what place this feedback is coming from and decide for yourself how much salt to take it with. I am a dom leaning switch. While I do enjoy submission, I have a high bar for trust when it comes to subbing. I dont engage with finsubbing, but do pay for other kinds of sex work. I am pro sexwork and do not have a moral judgement or prejudice against you for it like some potential clients might.

And to set ground rules about the feedback you can expect: Its going to be more about an objective/technical view on your profile not evaluating you on how attractive you are to me. I think beauty is subjective and telling you "I don't think you're my type" isnt helpful feedback. So you won't be getting bodyshaming from me. If you do want feedback on something related to your body, frame a question that way like "I think X feature is a strong selling point for me. Do you think that comes across in how Im posting myself and do you think theres any way to highlight that feature better?"

Lastly, if youre already successful or I offer feedback where the opposite is working for you, that's great! Keep doing what you're doing. Im not the end all be all of one size fits all advice, and you should prioritize your personal experiences of my outside insights. The target of this conversation is people who are struggling and arent sure how they can improve or who do have an idea of a problem but arent quite sure how to fix it and want fresh eyes from a different perspective.

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