I feel kind of out of place. I don't love humiliation and degrading my subs. I want to build a long term connection with them( more than a 30 minute session, or once a week etc) , and have complete control of their finances, but to HELP them. Not to ruin their lives. A FLR I suppose, where I dominate their life. I love having that control, but I am also extremely turned on by helping people succeed and do better. With finances, health, personal life, everything!

I don't want to tell people they have a small cock and they are only good for sending me their money. Lol. I mean, I get that's a thing, but I want more! I don't want to sell content either.

Is findom right for me? Am I looking in all the wrong places? Are there men or women who actually want this type of "relationship" ?