TLDR: two questions; 1. just don't get how to bring up payment. Have gathered the community calls it a tribute? 2. Have you found it hard to find subs if youre also a switch? I see myself fitting into a few fetish communities; BBC, size queen, cucking, BDSM, public. Would yous say its better to stick to one in order to build a more loyal fanbase/ a more niche presence online?

Hey yall so I got into findom after my I caught my ex essentially cheating on me through tumblr, paying these dommes to humiliate him etc. I think I probably had the most sane reaction to any of it, which really shocked him because I'm a patient person but I'm not quite. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm very reactive. I was fucking nice about it for someone who had just found something out that redefined my whole relationship. We're no longer together, surprise surprise that was just the beginning of it. Anyway, after domming him for two years it opened up this other side to me that i'm very grateful for having uncovered. I'd always thought i was a massive sub. Time flew by and I realised it was most definitely just a confidence issue that kept me resigned to the submissive side of BDSM. I've just downloaded twitter, OF and fansly and am starting to build up my profiles, I just feel like I still don't have the words I need to train my first sub & no idea how to structure payment. If you message daily, how and how much do you ask for? Then my other question is essentially should i stick to one 'kink'? Keep my audience on one track?