No. 1: You MUST be age verified! This is super important! Sites examples: Onlyfans, Loyalfans, Fansly, IWantClips… etc. You do not have to post on these sites if you don’t want to. But you need to obtain a verification link.

No. 2: Educate yourself especially on SSC (Safe Sane Consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Just use Google. Find blogs and watch Youtube videos about findom too. Please stop looking for advice on Tiktok..

No. 3: Observe, reflect, interact. Don’t become obsessed with “finding subs”. You don’t find subs. Subs find you. If you’re always focused on subs you’ll be more likely to overwhelm yourself or get discouraged. Follow other dommes and interact with their posts. Observe those who have experience. Make friends! Stay awhile. This is a pretty cool community if you allow it to be.

No. 4: Create and post authentic content! This does not mean that you need to post nudes or be dressed in lingerie or even show your face. Find what type of content you’re comfortable with and post! I’ve found that photos posted with a triggering caption reach a larger audience but you can definitely get a subs attention with texts only.

There are a handful of other tips that I am happy to share and plan on posting advice on Sunday’s! Feel free to share what you’ve learned and how you plan to improve your practice 🖤 Or ask questions that can be answered in my next post.