I’ve had a very rough week mental health wise. I’m still getting used to interacting with people online for femdom/findom and let me tell you it’s exhausting.

All you Doms, I see the work you put in. Getting dolled up to take pictures, getting angles and editing pictures to not show any information, watermarks, dealing with rude people, having the same conversations over and over again. I didn’t think this would be work, I thought I’d lazily throw out a line and maybe I’d meet some genuine people. But nah. So little of the subs out there are the cute puppy type we’re all looking for. I’ve had so many conversations where I can tell they’re just trying to take advantage of me and my time. A lot of these “subs” out here are anything but submissive.

So to ALL my ladies, you are a BAD ASS. The fact that you deal with this negativity and all these pathetic men alone is impressive. Don’t ever let a “sub” manipulate you or make you feel bad about yourself. You are a goddamn prize and if anyone even has a shred of entitlement or an attitude towards you, you should drop them. You are simply too good to be putting up with bullshit from horny men. You are all so genuinely beautiful and strong and confident and I learn something new every day from you all.

And to all the puppy subs out there, THANK YOU. You guys are the reason we findoms love what we do. Cute poems, ACTUAL worship (not the “mommy let me see your titties cuz I love them” kind), the sense of superiority you give us, gifts, and just pure puppy love. You guys are the reason we stay here.

And to all the people who message Doms without sending a tribute or who go in expecting the dynamic to go 100% your way, I hope you step on some legos today.