I don’t know if I can do it anymore. I made a new Reddit account to see if I can make connections and find a dynamic because I’ve done findom irl and wanted to see if I could find something online. I thought I’d find a lot of likeminded people here but I’m about ready to just delete my account because I see nothing but negativity everywhere I go.

You can’t be new. You can’t ask questions. You can’t be a soft domme. You can’t be a brat. You can’t demand a tribute before talking. You MUST demand a tribute before talking. You can only comment in certain subreddits or you’re desperate and a “pickmeisha”. You can’t post anything that anybody else has posted, and god forbid you comment ANYTHING ANYWHERE or it’s considered an advertisement.

I hate the idea of running a findom business and posting advertisements on different subreddits all day. I’m not a freaking business. I’m a person who experienced this kink and was hoping to find a good dynamic online and after two weeks I am so beaten down that I think I’ll just hope for something to fall into my lap in the real world.

I didn’t put myself into this to be called names or to compete against other girls. I would genuinely love to see all the girls here find a good dynamic. I really wish I saw more kindness and girls lifting each other up here instead of being annoyed at anything anyone ever does.

I guess the point of this post is to say I see all of you girls, and I support you. I understand now that just like every situation in a woman’s life, you can’t just exist here. There will always be negativity flying your way so just be authentic to you and drown out all the other noise.

Also if anyone knows of dating apps or places to get into findom that are different than Reddit’s vibe let me know. I mainly just don’t want to post pics of myself to different subreddits every day. Any advice is welcome.

I hope all you girls have a day full of positivity and good vibes.