To me, findom represents something much greater than just wallet draining; I can't put into words how empowered I feel when I can make someone weak (alongside the absolute knowledge that they enjoy that kinda thing). I've never had any female subs because it doesn't do much for me tbh, I mean other women have not culturally oppressed my gender for over two centuries; why should they have to pay me? (Just my personal preference and reason as to why, even though I'm bi). I'm very interested in speaking with someone who can help me articulate the wider conversation regarding this very niche kink, and what kind of implications it has on human psychology. Don't need a specialist; just someone who has similar theories maybe? Idk tbh. Hmu ladies!