While I'm interested in findom, I'm also a femdom online and in real life. I've been talking to this guy on FetLife. We discussed meeting Saturday for dinner. He asked me for ideas, I said "At a restaurant at the beach, preferably with Ahi tuna on the menu because I'm basically a pescatarian except for the occasional grilled steak or hamburger."

He blocked me! 😆 1. I limit my beef and stick to seafood for health reasons only! I LOVE steak. 2. I just had a taste for ahi since that's one thing I don't cook at home.

He must have assumed I was high maintenance or wanting him to pay for it when in reality, I was gonna pay for my own food because I don't want him to assume anything.

I was clear this was a meeting to see if this could move further. I'm married. My husband condones all of my "extracurriculars." We play with people together at times, but this is mine.

I wasn't really feeling him, but I wanted to meet to see if maybe there was something. 🤷🏾‍♀️

One of my new long distance subs messaged me an hour later that he'd be near my city (we're only 2 hours away from each other). I told him to book a room in my city at the beach with a bar. He chose the one I've always wanted to stay at without knowing that in less than 30 minutes. It's not cheap by any means either.

This is also my first meeting with someone who has always been a Dom, but wants to be my sub. He says he's tired of always being the one in charge he just wants someone to tell him what to do.

I said all of that to say. I was ready and willing to experiment, so thank you dude for blocking me and showing me why I shouldn't take one for the team. The team being me. 😆

noscrubs