You will waste years of your life pursuing a goal that you think will make you happy.

"When I have money, I'll be happy."

"When I have a better computer, I'll be happy."

"When I have a nice car, I'll be happy."

"When I have a nice home, I'll be happy."

"When I have a domme, I'll be happy."

By the time you reach a goal, your satisfaction will level off, and you will already have another idea in mind, "when I have this, I'll be happy."

Instead, be happy now. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Then, by the time you reach all your goals, you will have been happy the whole time.

Plus, you are more likely to reach a goal with a positive mindset. So recognize your flaws and your potential, that things will be okay, and see that life is about the moment now and what we do with it.

Love yourself, be happy with what you have, and you are more likely to find your domme.