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Where were you at 27-28, I feel like a failure.
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Where were you at 27-28, I feel like a failure.

27 feel like Iโ€™m failing at life

Im not sure if this will make me feel any better, but I must voice my frustrations out. I am a 27 year old man, who has failed completely at life. I have no savings, no job, my credit is bad and I still live with my parents. All my life I have never been a lazy guy, I have maintained a job for the majority of my life. Sometimes I have worked 2 and 3 jobs. The problem is they were always dead end jobs and I never had the ability to move up before I left them. I went to college at 19 and dropped out at 20 because I had no guidance and no idea what I wanted to do with my life. From there I just worked. Eventually I went into survival mode and wasn't thinking about getting some type of degree or skill and bettering myself and before I knew it BOOM I was almost 27.

The only accomplishments I feel that I have made is buying my own car and going on vacation out of the country. But even that's not a big flex, because my car is broken down and I have no money to fix it. Currently I have no idea what I'm doing with my life, all I know is that I'm terribly behind all my friends and peers and I have no idea what direction to take or even what to do as of now. My self confidence has vanished. For now I have been applying jobs but not only do they all pay so little, I canโ€™t even find one. I have been applying for ANY job. I have been unemployed for 2 months. I feel like a burden, a hopeless burden. I have never felt like this in my life. I have been foolish. I'm starting to get upset and reflect on my whole life and things I wish I had and did. I feel like if I had a father figure in my life I would have had more guidance and counsel. I just don't know how to properly convey my thoughts in text. I had a opportunity but royally messed it up.

Has anyone ever been in my shoes and saw the light at the end of the tunnel? I can terribly use some advice and encouragement right now if you don't mind. What should I do? It feels like Iโ€™m going to be stuck at my moms house forever.

I want to hear bad and good stories.

EDIT: I never expected that this post would get so much traction. I will take time to read every story. Thank you.

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Quitting the job that I went to university for, dating a loser. It took me another three years to get the courage to leave the loser, move to a nicer neighborhood and meet the man I ultimately married. Now I don't work and live an absolutely incredible life. It felt like I'd never get out of that shitty one bedroom apartment I could barely afford when I "moved up". All it took was me offering to make him dinner at my place and he almost demanded that I move in with him in the home he owned (not mortgaged). Chase something better that will make you happy and surround yourself with the type of people who inspire you. Life may suck again sometime, but the last seven years have been Cinderella like.

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