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For a long time I have been into fantasies, porn and roleplay/bdsm-sessions with a particular kind of humiliation theme, but I have never been able to find a good word to describe it. Because humiliation is such a wide concept, and I'm talking about the psychological feeling of embarrassment, shame, ridicule and shyness, and especially when it is outside the context of sex. By that I mean situations that are not inherently sexual in nature, even though I find them arousing because of my kink/fetish.
Some example scenarios:
- A person gets pantsed, or accidentally drops his/her towel in a public bathhouse, and his/her private parts are exposed to a group of people who start to laugh and point
- A person in maid outfit without panties has to clean and do the dishes in front of others
- A person looses a bet to his/her friend and has to walk around naked from the waist down in the friends house the rest of the evening
- A person is naked from the waist down, and does everyday stuff in front of fully dressed people
- A group of girls bully a guy, pull off his pants, tease him for his small dick, and puts him in positions when his butt hole is exposed to everyone
Often these scenarios involve a single person being naked (or half naked), in front of one or more people who are all dressed (CFNM, CMNF etc), because if more than one person is naked then the nakedness is shared and therefore less embarrassing (and also it makes it feel more sexual in nature). And if the nakedness of that one person is different from "normal" nakedness, then it also adds to the humiliation. For example fully dressed on the top, but naked from the waist down (or maybe wearing socks and shoes). Other things can be added, to increase the humiliation, for example clothes that makes the person look silly, uncomfortable or extra exposed.
And I'm talking about situations where non of the participants are expected to be aroused by what is happening. Of course, this is only fantasy/roleplay, and IRL people can of course get aroused by playing. But the general idea of the fantasy is that it is a completely unwanted situation for the victim, and the perpetrators do it because of schadenfreude/sadism and/or indifference. And the victim is completely innocent, so it is not "revenge play". The whole thing should have a strong sense of unfairness to it, so that if it happened IRL it might be considered illegal and something most decent people would feel upset about. So it can be considered something taboo, just like rape/torture/snuff fantasies, but this a bit milder and with a stronger focus on the psychological aspect.
Is there perhaps any name already existing for this kind of fetish/kink? And if not, maybe someone with a good language sense could come up with a new name for this?
The regular humiliation kink/fetish is way too wide for this, since it includes so much else. And CFNM/CMNF is on the other hand too narrow (while at the same time also too wide, since it can include more sexual situations).
Here is a link to a gallery with some example images, from various porn clips. They don't match 100%, but there are more or less the best I could find... http://imgbox.com/g/tBzJD1jwM6
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