The list of things that I find super hot is a mile long but there are a few kinks that are just over the moon for me but I can’t seem to figure out where they came from.

Some are probably pretty straight forward like fishnets and heels with frilly socks is probably from seeing the Rocky Horror Picture Show so many times early teens (Columbia dancing during the Timewarp) but I’m not sure where my love of pain comes from or my fascination with anal on me or women with a super tight pony tail and glasses or the tactile of wearing nylons (and heels) or the smell of leather, you get the idea. (Certainly not an exhaustive list as that would require a small spreadsheet to itemize)

I feel like these have been there as long since I was probably 12 years old and they’ve only become more pronounced/specific as I’ve gotten older.

Do you know where your kinks/fetishes/desires originated?