So my husband is a recovering fent user who has recently relapsed again. Right now, he is begging to go get more. But i found him today on the floor of a job he’s doing (no one was there thank god) passed out with 2 needles beside him. And now he is saying he needs more… we don’t have a lot of money & im pretty sure he got some yesterday. I’m saying this because i know deep down he knows we really can’t afford to drive 2 hours again to go get it & pay $50 worth…

I know this group is based on real addicts but I’m at a lose & don’t know how to handle the manipulation & guilt tripping he’s doing. I’m not taking anything personally, but it does piss me off because i know what he is doing. I’m trying to just walk away so i don’t get mad but he is very certain that he IS going (we share a car so I’d have to too)… my question is…. What do i do? Do i just get over it & let him do it against my better judgement? Or is there a better approach?

He does have a full script of suboxone & 2 300 mlg gabupentin. Also, i know he has a process he does to wing himself off by lowering the dose of fent while simultaneously raising the amount of subs so he doesn’t withdrawal badly but this process has lasted like 3 weeks now so I’m pretty sure he’s using the “process” as an excuse to keep using.

Please HELP