I'm so fucking tired of running into posts of the same old bullshit and the same old questions.

Here's a list of my gripes, because I need to vent:

1. Stop asking "how to find a Domme" or "how to not pay for. Domme". Do your research and actually read something, anything.
2. What the hell is with men acting like us Dommes just want to roleplay mom 24/7? Nobody thinks that's fucking sexy. Nobody.
3. Male subs not taking any accountability, responsibility, or initiative in these dynamics, expecting the Domme to do everything. What the fuck is the point in being your mom who pegs you and sissifies you while you do nothing but lay on your back?
4. God, the amount of sexism and misogyny. The one space on the Internet to focus on women's pleasure and sexual experiences, and male subs have managed to make it all about them, again.
5. The blatant disregard for consent. No, you don't push, force, or manipulate someone to Domme you. A very disappointing number of posts include women coming out as being used as kink dispensers without their consent with their male "sub" partners.
6. I'm so sick of the weaponized incompetence. Oh my god, pick up a book. Do something. Read. Research. Learn. Initiate conversations and learn about service submission and anticipating needs. Stop making excuses. Stop expecting women to do everything, stop using us as kink dispensers. Stop.
7. The sheer desperation in many male subs. As if they'd worship anyone and anything that walked in their path. The desperation that makes Domme scammers and abusers extremely giddy as they have new prey. The desperation that seeps through their every cell that makes my skin crawl and recoil. It's not sexy. It's disturbing, and makes me scared for my genuine life if you are so desperate that you're willing to skip consent, vetting, and boundary-setting.

Reply with some of your biggest pet peevs and gripes about FemmeDomme, the community, or the people. I wanna hear!