There's always lots of talk between the benefits of a D/s relationship. But in FemmeDomme, I believe the benefits for the Domme are oftentimes overlooked due to an influx of the online era of BDSM.

This list may help many find their way into exploring and understanding their Dominant streak, give extra ideas for more seasoned Dommes, or could very well help the bottoms (yes, you, male subs) understand and begin their proactive journey into this type of dynamic.

Please note: this list is not at all cohesive or an extensive list, and this is purely based on my own interests and kinks

🔗 The empowerment that comes with feeling in charge and being looked up to for direction can be extremely intoxicating at times. It's a wonderful feeling to know someone trusts you with decision-making skills and communicating and delegating that information properly. It makes me feel sexy and confident, and even when/if I'm faking the confidence for a good scene, it's easy to slowly start believing yourself - soon enough, you won't be faking it anymore!

🔗 Being able to take power back from my past and being ENCOURAGED to take what I want, when I want is extremely sexy to me. Self-advocacy is sexy. I feel SO good when I say "No". I feel empowered when a man must come to me and ask permission. I feel turned on and my posture becomes more stern and confident when he LISTENS to my "Yes" and "No"'s. I feel beautiful and cherished when his focus is on my pleasure, serving me, and when his thoughts and attention and mind are in high-gear to make sure I am pleased and proud of him.

🔗 I love making someone feel less than me in the most sexiest ways and making sure they know that I am not someone to take for granted. I am someone to be worshipped, loved, cherished, taken care of. The more I feel worshipped, the more I want to give to them in return. It's a lovely, empathetic, and spiritual connection you just cannot force or fake.

🔗 I love seeing a man become so small in comparison to me. Despite my short stature, I adore when men melt in puddles beneath me. Seeing a 6 ft. Giant turn into a wobbly, clumsy, and unhinged dog is just what I love about power play. It takes great skill, power, technique, and communication skills to achieve such a result. And it's extremely humbling (what a paradox!) when someone acknowledges and accepts my skills that I've worked hard to attain and craft.

DISCUSSION: Tell me what you love about FemmeDomme, FLR's, or D/s dynamics! Dom(me) or sub, Top or bottom, men, women, trans, nonbinary and the likes! What do YOU as an individual benefit from these dynamics?