Welcome! This community is a bit different than others, so PLEASE read below before posting, commenting, or interacting in our space.

1. This community is focused on the FEMME in FEMMEDOMME. We are focused on the females and female-presenting Dommes who come here to educate themselves or their partners, learn, grow, get recommendations, and find materials and tools to help explore the world of FemmeDomme.
2. Anybody who crosses any consent boundaries will be perma-banned without explanation. There are too many communities which allow both unethical Dommes and subs alike to creep into communities that are meant to be safe spaces. This is not one of them.
3. This community is NOT a personals ad campaign. Any post that looks like this will be deleted, and you may be banned if it happens more than once. This community is NOT about your porn fantasies, your fap material, or your strange tactics to finding a partner
4. Posts are required to add some type of value to our community. This is not your personal online fantasy porn on Reddit, and this is not about a tit-for-tat situation. We also do not encourage service tops in this community, as we are heavily focused on the ins-and-outs of FemmeDomme, Female-Led Relationships (FLR's), and submission and service. We are NOT about: a) bottoms abusing or manipulating women into doing whatever they want without any reciprocation or understanding of D/s dynamics b) service tops who only top as a way to serve their partner c) submissives who are not willing to educate themselves on what submission truly means and the vast ways we are able to explore it, and d) for anyone who believes Dommes are only there to curate your fantasies, using us as sex objects and/or kink-dispensers
5. Men (and women who identify as submissive) are discouraged from any form of "I want..", "I need.." or any form of selfish language. FemmeDomme is first and foremost about servicing the Domme. These dynamics are mutual and loving, not one-sided and selfish. If you are coming to this community only to get your rocks off, or push an unsuspecting victim into a dynamic that is not mutual or fulfilling on both sides, OR if you are not willing or able to put in serious work and effort to learn about this community and research on your own, you are NOT welcome here.

This community above all else is a safe space for women in FemmeDomme to feel listened to, cared for, and respected. There are too many FemmeDomme communities that allow men to manipulate their way into a one-sided, selfish dynamic, with plenty of people to excuse their behavior. This community will NOT tolerate that. At all. Join at your own discretion.