For context I am myself a cis gay man who is comfortable with the label femboy for work today I had a early breakfast meeting (corporate job) I choose to keep my hair down because I walk most places and it is shoulder length I been told when my hair is down my face becomes very gender neutral and my voice is far too soft-spoken always hated it I met the person I was suppose to be meeting and immediately the waiter misgenders me call me "Miss what would you like to drink" person I was meeting knows I'm a man so she asks the waitress why she thought me a 6 1 one man wearing office attire was a woman her answer I move like one ? The reason this bothers me I was in male clothes and I don't see myself as super fem probably a 4 out of ten but every week this has been happening always miss her she when I'm dressed masc it's really bugging me my friends keep saying I should take it as a compliment but I get really bad self loathing about it even when I cut my hair same result her she miss happens when I use public bathrooms as well I'm literally a biological male it's very frustrating when people misgender Me I don't see what they see I just wish it would stop happening really messing with how I view myself and my gender expression I enjoy being a femboy in the space of my own home but when in public in masc clothes it just cuts my confidence and self esteem in half I dunno what to do anymore tbh how do I stop it from happening more often ?