Kind of a update from my previous post but I told my family about being Madme Maxine for my friends party they really did not care what was a relief but my eldest sibling thinks it's a bad idea because he's worried I be gay bashed what's sadly common in the area I live so I'm having some second thoughts But I be with a large group of people I always carry something for protection from having a really horrible time in high school and my friend promised she make sure someone is near by me most of the night I just feel kind of crappy about it because it's her birthday and I don't want her to have any other stress I dunno should I still go ? Pick to change to attend as a male character instead advice sorely needed because I'm feeling like the ass hole in this situation