I'm sure this thread gets made every other day but I'm gonna take this one a step further:

Girls into femboys have the option of simply going into a space where femboys are (like, say, this subreddit) - however, girls generally never approach guys because reasons, so that doesn't always help. I think I've officially crossed the line in my dry spell where I'm ready to stop being a passive femboy and actually be the active one approaching girls (I never did this ever until now)

Only... I don't know where to look? Most straight girls are into masc guys so trying to find one into femboys is like finding a needle in a haystack. I'm trans-enough that I've had my dating app set to lesbian before, but that's a minefield. I don't want to feel like an invader, and a TERF might kill me or something. Usually in these threads we establish bi girls are where to go. Which is great! But also not... most dating apps don't let you look for only bisexuals (I think? Maybe one of them but you'd have to pay or something.) and places like fetlife might have groups for bi girls but they're also just limited to girls. I'm so lost right now haha

I have weeb hobbies but I don't know how much that helps. All of my friends are guys because of it... I haven't had much luck generally making cosplay friends as a cosplayer either.