A great many of you are cis boys who are embracing femininity -- Maybe even MOST of you are like that, maybe only the TINIEST PERCENTAGE of you are currently questioning your ACTUAL gender identity.

But a FEW of you, are here discovering your journey. And as a young person who has been told and convinced you're a boy, your WHOLE LIFE, Femboy is a much easier first step than jumping all the way to trans girl hormines surgry omg wtf Bwharrgarbl

...And this brings me to my main point.

There are those on this sub who are MILITANTLY, VIRULENTLY NASTY to gender transition.

Please quit that bullshit. YOU aren't necessarily on "the journey," and that's fine. but PLEASE DON'T BE TOXIC to precious young women cursed with the unwanted male chromosomes, who depend on this community as a safe space to explore and figure out their gender expression shit.

TL:DR: Trans girls who transition DO NOT THREATEN your awesome, sexy, seriously super sexy, right to be guys, men, and boys who do femboy expression, clothes, thigh-high catboy skirt go swish swish, et cetera. Seriously, it's a mood, and people are super into it. YOU ARE VALID.

BUT... You are all mostly like... what, 14 to 25 years of age, discovering this cultural space, and embracing the fact that socially-normalized masculinity is toxic as shit, and actually you also would like to be a delicate little flower sometimes? Awesome. So are we. We are you!!! For this stage in our lives, you and we are the same "Guy."

So please don't be jerks.

If you're a cis Femboy, I love you with all my heart. I really do. Like, more than just a friend.

But IF you're a cis male femboy, PLEASE be a strong enough man, if that's what you are, to show the proper care and compassion for the Young Women who find themselves "just passing through" this community, on their way to self-discovery of womanhood.

Don't exclude them. Don't gatekeep them. Don't abuse them. Just be cool. At the end of the day, we all want the same thing: For society to stop putting all these restrictions on things like clothes and personality, and for us all to just be free to be openly living our best lives.

I know you truly good guys are out there. I've seen trans girls "coming out" posts on this sub and seen all the comments saying "Congratulations! You go girl!"

Just be like that. All the time. Thank you.