there are absolutely no feminine men around me and even if there were, they’re usually 1. not attracted to women, 2. don’t want an actual relationship and 3. very misogynistic (which is surprising to me). i live in melbourne (australia), by the way.

ive just about given up 🤷‍♀️. i can’t do long distance either (as in, being from another country) unless they plan on moving to here. i try to focus more on finding love with men because my family are a little homophobic, and dating women scares me because of that. but it’s hard when my taste in men is practically fictional.

im pretty much a lost cause at this point lmao. just wanted to get it out.