In a way I can say by allowing myself to explore being fem has been a self care thing because it’s boosted my self esteem with how cute I feel and just being able to be more expressive. However I’ve also been trying to practice mindfulness stuff like meditation and reading books on wisdom to help comfort my mind when it gets angsty. I’ve come to think if I want to be a positive presence in other peoples lives I need to take care of myself first so I can have energy to spare❤️. But I wonder what my fellow fems have been trying too. Feel like we can all use a bit of care and comfort, not all of us are lucky to live with people who are accepting of our chosen aesthetic so I think they need it the most😋. Maybe we can help eachother live more cozy lives