So I'm sorta on and off with the femboy thing but I kinda wanna try leaning more into it at least for my private life.

There's like three things I think I need some advice on which are probably super common on here. Hopefully I can get some good advice.

1. Shaving is I think my biggest problem but I think it stems from me being a bit lazy and from me not doing it enough to get used to the feeling. I use Nair now and while it works it takes 10 minutes (the max) for it to do anything to my thick body hair. Even then I'm left a bit raw or sore from the chemicals. I'm thinking of using it to get the bulk of the hair gone to make shaving easier.

Are there any recommended products to help? Like a specific razor brand or electric razor? Stuff like that. Also I only shave my private areas, stomach, chest, and backside. Legs and arms would draw too much questioning that I don't care to deal with and stockings and arm warmers cover that up enough when I need to look cute.

1. Skincare is kinda new to me, most o do is avoid taking to many showers so my skin doesn't dry out. I got this body scrub stuff off Amazon since a friend said it helps exfoliate the skin to avoid ingrown hairs and achne from shaving (this is an issue I have every time I shave and is why I don't do it often.). I love how smooth it makes me feel but idk what type is best to buy.

Also what other simple and quick skincare options should I try to ensure my skin is smooth and devoid of bumps/ingrown hairs?

1. Simple exercises to help me slim down more? I'm pretty skinny as is but I cut caffeine from my diet three years ago and that slowed my already fast metabolism down some netting me an extra 30lb mostly in my stomach and chest. I'm not happy with my gut and wanna be more slim but I can't keep to any routine.

So any suggestions to help cut that weight or at least make it more toned would be appreciated.

That's all I got to ask but other suggestions are appreciated and if there are any questions for me to help you figure out what advice to give well I'm happy to answer!