I spent the last several years randomly deciding to grow out my hair. It stopped at about 16 inches where it spent most of its time in a ponytail and overall its been a disaster. I have this messy curly wavy hair that frizzes alot unless I put tons of products in it and even then it doesn't look quite right. I got this expensive keratin-defrizzing treatment and it barely did anything, maybe even made it worse. My boyfriend called my hair a 'rats nest'. Most gay guys wont look at me unless I have it tightly back in a pony tail. Long hair is not really in with the gays right now at all; Its all about short hair and masculinity. It also gets in my way. For various reasons I'd like to cut my hair a little shorter, perhaps to 8 inches or some stylish undercut thing with curls on the top (of course the bf says shave it all). One of the only things holding me back right now from cutting my hair is that Im thinking about getting into crossdressing and being a femboy. Im afraid that if I cut my hair Ill lose this natural feminine asset that I have and it would take years to grow it back. Is this a real concern? Should femboys have long hair? Even if it looks bad? Is there a minimum length of natural hair I should have to look substantially feminine? How much? Or are you all just wearing wigs anyway?