It seems all I do is rant here. But I promise its just i can post here without dm floods of beggars and prove a point ass mfs. But like I need subs to read the guidelines laid out. Theyre crystal and clear!!!! And this not only about me but other dommes ive seen post in other communities. Its literally the same issue over and over then a sub will make their own post like they’re a victim but you read their post they literally a) didn’t accept the rejection and started an argument b) feel entitled because or c) think they’re above the program and you’re literally not. Listen every domme needs to just immediately block and/or just hit ignore on the dm screen immediately don’t let them take no inch off you/of your time because then theyll start taking miles and building hills on your ass. I know its tempting to just give them a piece of your mind but just dead it from the start to avoid irritation and conflict because you can be blue in the face stating EXACTLY what you want, how you want to be greeted in dms and say what the disqualifications are and still. Somebody who couldn’t even sniff you gonna be on some bullshit. The best thing I’ve done for myself is letting go of that guilt of not being nice or giving folks a chance. No!! No chances, no shenanigans!! NOTHING! Because at the end of the day. They are still men who are most the time are misogynistic as hell and live ive said in a previous post they want to control you. Don’t give in because they want a reaction at times to try and control that too!