So hear me out: my partner and I actually love the concept of role reversal. He cooks for me and supports me emotionally and I buy him flowers on Valentine's Day and take the lead in conversations.

Whenever I see a male sub talking about role reversal, they want a tall mommy that dispenses kinks and takes care of all their needs. This sounds super exhausting and really only serves the sub. They never talk about the labour that women perform and how they intend to fulfill their half of the relationship.

The ironic part is that a sub could say they desire the opportunity to book their domme's appointments and be their personal secretary and their DMs would probably be filled with interested dommes. But this never happens. We see 100000 posts about "Where can I find muscle gf🥺" instead lol.

Do you think there's a way to change how men look at role reversal or labour that women perform?