Hello there! How are you doing?

As the title suggests, I'm a virgin and a switch and I miss being submissive. While I have no irl experience, I've been chatting with people over reddit for quite a few years now. Lately, I've been mainly taking on a dominant role, but I miss being submissive.

I tend to prefer gentler dommes, but I do try to keep an open mind always. I'm a switch, but you don't have to be one. I don't really have problems with age (as long as you're 18 , that is a hard limit) or timezone (I'm GMT -3, if that's relevant for you). Ideally, I prefer to eventually develop a friendship with people I talk in here. While I often like to get "straight into action", I would like for us to keep "pillow talking" for a while after each session and bonding over time. I expect you to respect me as a human being and understand I have a life beyond sexting in reddit, and of course I'll retribute.

I try to keep an open mind, so my list of limits is not very large. If I feel uncomfortable with something, I'd rather let you know when it comes around through stoplight safewords (yellow for "keep going, but tone it down", red for "stop immediately"). Things I'd rather keep out of play are anything bathroom related, mid and hard pain, other people, anything illegal. I have a difficult relationship with denial and chastity: I'm willing to try as long as you're patient and understand I might take quite a while (I'd also prefer to wait until were comfortable with each other). I'm okay with trading media (pics, video) as long as you are as well, but I'd rather wait for a little bit until we get to know each other a little (how much might vary from person to person).

If you don't match my kinks, that's not an issue: I love to experiment. Maybe things work out, maybe they don't, but I'll love to try. That being said, my main kinks are JOI and CEI, though I hardly ever do CEI on my own. I've lately been interested in SPH and light degrading (not always seen in GFD, but I don't see them as contradictory). Perhaps due to my irl inexperience, I love the idea of being "taught".

As for toys, I have an egg masturbator and a small butt plug. I don't use them very often, but feel free to keep them in mind. I also always have some condoms around for fun.

Hit me through chat if you'd like to talk! I also do Kik, discord, and wallclaimer although chat is my preferred platform at least for a first contact. Thank you for reading this far and, if I'm not the right person for you, I hope you find who you're looking for!