Ah, I love Reddit. All the cool people hang out here. Which is why I’m looking around here for what will hopefully blossom into a mutually fulfilling D/s relationship. This is my second attempt in finding a submissive on here and I’ve learned a few things. One is that apparently most people don’t actually read the ad, they just see I’m a Domme and panic message me. May I suggest if you want a reply you actually read to the very end and follow the instructions there.

About me:

Pansexual, tall, slim, love the gym, gaming, reading, writing, and tattoos (although I only have eight, tell me about yours). Been in the BDSM scene for almost two decades.

I’m a huge nerd and love everything about Star Wars (I’m reading the new cannon Thrawn books by Timothy Zahn right now and they’re amazing). I’m agnostic and also pagan, love mythology and history, and read tarot for fun and as a side gig. I’m back in school for programming, so if you know much about that, please let me know! My first technical classes start this fall and I’m really excited for them. I love learning new stuff, so feel free to tell me about your pet topics!

I’m poly and have been for 18 years. If you’re not poly, this probably won’t work. I have two nesting partners, neither of whom is submissive.

I primarily use discord to communicate. I don’t have snap or insta and I have no plans of getting them.

A limited list of my kinks: power play, chastity (I love being a keyholder, one of my previous subs introduced me to this, and I was unprepared for how powerful it made me feel), giving tasks, helping subs with self development (prepare to be made into a better person if you’re with me, including regular visits to the gym and/or exercising and expanding your mind with books/self-improvement stuff), feminization to a certain extent (guys in aprons do it for me), restraint (although I’m not very good with rope so it’s generally handcuffs), pegging, etc.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally I’d find someone poly, within a few hours of me, willing to trade pictures/verify once we chat, 25-55 age range, pretty fit, Dom in the streets sub in the sheets or at least someone who is doing what they want to do in life and has that submissive urge behind the scenes. Race/gender don’t matter to me, although location does.

In my fantasy of finding the perfect submissive, I’d also find someone who is creative, would play Overwatch with me (and be my healslut), and loves philosophical conversations about life, the universe, and everything. ;) Being willing to meet IRL is very important as well as someone who enjoys watching shows together while chatting on discord (my favorite genre is horror).

If you think you might be what I’m looking for, drop me a message (not a chat, please, I find reddit chat buggy and annoying) with your favorite movie in the subject line. If you can’t decide on your favorite movie, the one you rewatch the most is fine!