hi there <3 i'm a 21 yr old softie and lonesome boi in uni looking for a relationship and/or friends.

i'd really like to meet somebody and start as friends, and whether we remain friends or bloom into something more, i'll be happy for both outcomes.

I'm looking to probably start off online, but definitely if we go farther i of course would want to make it in person!

some stuff about me:

- soft hearted and understanding/open-minded, i find myself to be an extremely affectionate agreeable person (in relation to the big 5 personality traits), as somebody who has felt misunderstood often, i do my best to understand where people come from and i almost always give people the benefit of the doubt. i also just really try my best to be kind. am also somewhat a crybaby, i'm a soft crybaby that appreciates warm comfort.

- my mbti is esfp-t! if you know what this is then that might give you a better idea of who i am, you can also google it.

- currently doing my best to love myself, i have self-esteem issues. i'm in therapy and working on that. your reassurance/support would be very much appreciated!!

- soft subby boi, sometimes a switch/soft dom but generally i like being subby. good boys make me melt and i get flustered way too easily. i really love femdom but disclaimer am not interested in pegging or anything too hardcore. (but honestly i do have some taboofantasies...) i'll always remain open to experimentation it but i don't think i'm interested in it. if you're curious to know more about me sexually here's my bdsm test results as of late: bdsm results also yes, i'll call you mommy if you want me to.

- gamer, anime watcher. i'm not proud of it but truthfully i game a lot, i'm always online (you'll always see me on discord). my current games i play often are: League of Legends, TFT, & Valorant. my favorite games rotate quite often so some of these will probably not be my favorite in time. I also play stuff like Back 4 Blood, New World, Overwatch, etc etc basically I've played or at least tried all popular multiplayer games, I enjoy team-based competitive. i also like watching anime, as of recent though, i've been slowing down on anime watching, but i really appreciate anime art.

- oh and i listen to a LOT of music, quite a variety in genres but some i like are electronic, edm, lo-fi, some rock, even instrumental, etc etc???

- in terms of physical appearance, i'm an ever so slightly (and when i say slightly i mean you wouldn't even call me chubby if you saw me in a shirt) chubby chinese boy with medium length black hair, glasses, and brown eyes. i'm about 5'11" and am about 200 lbs.

what i'm looking for:

- friendly/considerate, and open-minded. bonus points for being emotionally intelligent. i really appreciate these traits more than anything and it will most likely be these traits that will make me attracted to you

- supportive! i hope you'll support me in the same way i'll support you! a relationship is all about lifting each other up and holding each other back when we do something stupid.

- logical, it is very important to me that i can reason with you. it's sort of hard to describe what this is but be willing to see the other side of the coin.

- no excessive negativity. everyone has their bad days, trust me i know, so when that time comes i'll be more than happy to comfort you and tell you everything will be okay, and honestly this world is full of stupid shit, so i'm fine with rants and dialogue, but i would prefer not to be friends or more with somebody who's ALWAYS complaining, trashtalking, etc.

thank you! please reach out^-^

if you're unsure if you're the type of person i'm looking for OR if you're unsure that i'm the type of person that you're looking for just ask me, i promise i won't bite!

thank you for reading <3 even if we for some reason we don't have chemistry, i hope maybe we can remain valuable friends! and if you don't feel comfortable with that i will more than understand. please message me if you take interest. i wish you the best!