Well hello there my kinky comrades!Welcome to the dark and never ending abyss that is my mind, welcome to the first step of giving up control. I’ve been in your position, searching for that right one. Looking for someone to fit all of your needs, to coax you into submission, slowly, softly and then all at once. Usually I am much more submissive, way less reformed, but lately I’ve had a taste for my darker side, and so I’m here hoping to explore. Escape into a world that is just ours, and only come out when it feels right, when we’re whole. Looking to dip our toes into the metaphorical water.

But before we jump in, let me tell you a bit about the girl behind the screen. For now you can call me A - I live in the Boston area, and have for most of my life. I went to college in another state, and studied anthropology and sociology, then I returned to Boston for a Master’s degree in urban planning that I never finished. I’m a free spirit, as they say, I flow in the ways I want and reject the ways that don’t fit into my mold. I’m a writer with a penchant for erotic poetry and prose, I love tea over coffee, enjoy cats more than dogs (though they’re both pretty cool), I have varied hobbies like knitting and scrap booking (stickers galore), but my professional life is pretty boring.

I work in administration at an insurance company, and it’s the most boring place I have been yet.I love horror, fantasy and science fiction, especially H.P. Lovecraft, Philip K. Dick and Adam Neville. My favorite book is the Life and Death of Great American Cities by Jane Jacobs, with a close second of Breakfast of Champions. I like to watch true crime, and sci-fi, with the occasional horror movie thrown in. My favorites include Lost (TV show), the Blair Witch Project, Witch (the movie), Altered Carbon (first season), and Outlander.

I’m a leftist, which is important, I’m not interested in corresponding with people who have radically different political beliefs, take that as you may, it just is what it is. I am actively involved in the community with organization efforts and mutual aid, and my feelings about the sociopolitical realm basically break down to the idea that I care about other people.Now onto the funner stuff:I have been exploring kink and D/s for what is now almost over 10 years. I have been both dominant and submissive, in various types of relationships and scenes both online and in real life. I am very knowledgable about kink and safety, I do not aim to put anyone in danger. I am polyam and currently single but open and looking (obviously hence this post). I’m curvy and tattooed with several piercings (mostly discrete), with brown hair and hazel eyes. I would describe my figure as hour glass, though I hate the term.

My favorite kinks and fetishes include anal/anal only, chastity, orgasm denial, edging, humiliation, AB/DL (forced age regression), power exchange and micromanagement.What I’m looking for:I am open to anyone within the ages of 24 - 55, gender/sex doesn’t matter, and body type/presentation is inconsequential.Mostly, you are innately submissive, and looking to give up control little by little. In the process I would like to develop a relationship with you, the type and degree can be discussed.

In the past I have developed “training programs” for subs who are interested in longer intensive scenes or play (say a weekend minimum), and have really enjoyed that play. I’d like to be able to design a “program” again for someone who is interested and tailor it to their specifics kinks, interests and goals. If this sounds like you, please send me a message.

The best way to approach me if you’re interested is to send me a message with some details about yourself, your interests (kink an otherwise), and what sparked your interest in my post enough to message me.I hope to find you, stranger,

I have this needy space that needs to be filled.

-A