hi there <3 i'm a 21 yr old softie and lonesome boi in uni looking for frens and potentially a partner for life. to start off, i'm looking for somebody understanding and kind, or at the very least, soft/kind to me, am somewhat fragile. i'd really like to meet you and start as friends, and whether we remain friends or bloom into something more, i'll be happy for both outcomes.

am looking to probably start off online, but definitely if we go farther i of course would want to make it in person!

some stuff about me:

- soft hearted and understanding/open-minded, i find myself to be an extremely agreeable person (in relation to the big 5 personality trait), as somebody who has felt misunderstood often, i do my best to understand where people come from and i almost always give people the benefit of the doubt. i also just really try my best to be kind. i am also a pretty affectionate person.

- my mbti is esfp-t! if you know what this is then that might give you a better idea of who i am, you can also google it.

- currently doing my best to love myself, i have self-esteem issues. i'm in therapy and working on that.

- a crybaby, i'm a soft crybaby that appreciates warm comfort.

- subby boi, sometimes a switch/soft dom but generally i like being subby. good boys make me melt and i get flustered easily. i really love dom but disclaimer am not interested in pegging or anything too hardcore. (but honestly i do have some dirty fantasies...) i'll always remain open to it but i don't think i'm interested in it. if you're curious to know more about me sexually here's my bdsm test results as of late: bdsm results

- gamer, anime watcher. i'm not proud of it but truthfully i game a lot, i'm always online. my current games i play often are: League of Legends, TFT, & Valorant. my favorite games rotate quite often. I also play stuff like Back 4 Blood, New World, Overwatch, etc etc basically I've played or at least tried all popular multiplayer games. i also like watching anime, as of recent years, i've been slowing down but i always appreciate anime.

- oh and i listen to a LOT of music, quite a variety in genres but some i like are electronic, lo-fi, etc???

- in terms of physical appearance, i'm an ever so slightly (and when i say slightly i mean you wouldn't even call me chubby if you saw me in a shirt) chubby asian boy with medium length black hair, glasses, and typical brown eyes.

that's a good general gist, there's more of course but that seems to be most important!

type of person i'm looking for:

- gentle/friendly/kind/considerate & open-minded/understanding/emotionally intelligent people. i really appreciate these traits more than anything.

- optimism / non-negativity , i'm not saying being blindly optimistic, but something i can't handle is constant negativity. i'm no ray of sunshine myself, just, you know, no people who think life is meaningless and stuff.

bonus points if u play games ^-^

if you're unsure if you're the type of person i'm looking for OR if you're unsure that i'm the type of person that you're looking for just ask me, i won't bite!

thank you for reading <3 even if we for some reason we don't have chemistry, i hope maybe we can remain valuable friends! and if you don't feel comfortable with that i will more than understand. please message me if you take interest. have a nice day even if you don't think i'm for you <3