I want to preface by saying that this is not a quick kink fix. I want an actual relationship that’s wrapped around the lifestyle.

Recently I’ve felt that it’s about time for me to try to put an effort into finding a relationship, after many years of not bothering. I’ve only been in one relationship previously and it was a fairly vanilla relationship too so I’m a bit inexperienced when it comes to relationships in general so please forgive me if I make any mistakes. Ideally what I’m looking for is another nerd to become friends with and eventually date, who also happens to be more dominant.

We can exchange pics once we start messaging each other for a while but, I’m white, 5’6 and weigh about 185 lbs. I do have a bit of stomach chub but nothing that can be considered fat, and I do want to lose it. I love to cosplay, both as male and female characters. Im more feminine leaning and I want to try to express that side of myself more but I just have no idea how to or where to start.

Some of my hobbies include the aforementioned Cosplaying, playing video games and abandoning them half way through as I shift to another game (mainly on PC and Switch), watching anime and writing. Currently I’m in my senior year of college and will be graduating with an English Education degree, though I do plan on being a game developer, so I have the teaching degree as something to fall back on. Though ideally, I would love to be a house husband. The idea of cleaning the house, taking care of the kids and preparing a nice warm meal for you always gave me butterflies.

As for what I’m looking for in a partner, the only requirements I have are that you have to be 21 and older. Otherwise, I could care less on your race, height, weight etc. I would also like for you to enjoy similar things that I do. Mainly, Touhou, Pokémon, Fire Emblem, DDLC and RWBY to name a few from the top of my head. I’m also perfectly fine with this relationship being long distance.

In terms of kink, I typically don’t like to talk much about it till we know each other but I will say that I’m more into the gentler and softer side of femdom. Call me a good boy and I’ll be yours forever lol! That isn’t to say I’m not into the hardcore stuff, cause I do enjoy that but that’s something I want to wait to do till I can fully trust you.

If anything I’ve said has caught your interest, then please send me a message! Tell me who your favorite Touhou character or Fire Emblem character is! I hope you guys all have a wonderful day! uwu