Thanks for taking the time to read this. I have been active in my local community for a long time so I would consider myself reasonably experienced but I haven't found anybody who ticks all my boxes in terms of a D/s partner. I want to get to know someone who can, and I can comfortably let, get inside my head. Someone who can occasionally pop into the constant barrage of overthinking going on in my head, interrupt my executive disfunction here and there, and make a decision (to their satisfaction). I'm looking for someone more on the sadistic streak who lives within a few hours from Ohio preferably 25-45 years old, but if we click, we click so don't let any of that be a deterrent (I like talking to people anyway)

About me, I am one of those people who is kind of too nerdy for jocks and too jocky for nerds. I've played ice hockey for years and still do recreationally, so I have the hockey player build (90% legs and ass, though COVID has not been kind to my physique). I also play tabletop games (I'm pretty system agnostic) and recently started 3D printing and painting my own minis (I'm not good but I'm not the artsy type so its way out of my wheelhouse and getting out of my comfort zone is good for me). As far as other nerdy pursuits I like overly complicated simulation games, the kind that aren't mechanically intense but it always has something for you to do.

I am a switch but that doesn't mean I want to "tame" anyone or that when I am in a submissive role I'm not a "true" sub. I do occasionally poke the sadist and some purists may say I'm a "brat" because of that, but that's I game I never intend to win on the lower slash and I like it that way. If we form a relationship where I am a non-switching sub in our relationship I am a sub.

I am also poly, so I have a live-in partner and several other play partners with varying degrees of intimacy. You are not obligated to interact with any of my other partners, but you need to be okay with their existence. If you can interact with them I would be ecstatic though.

I feel like kink lists don't do justice to the why we enjoy each activity. My primary enjoyment from kink is based in objectification. To go from regular person with agency, to thing to be used at your leisure (and then back). Its just coincidence I like it too. I enjoy heavy impact, bondage, pegging/anal, sensory deprivation/play, tease and denial, chastity, body worship, massage, fire play, collar/leash, primal play, confinement, trampling, mild CBT and (now that I think about it) pretty much anything not on my hard limits list (pending negotiation).

Hard limits: head strikes, toilet play, purposeful blood play, needles, permanent damage, body modification, public play in vanilla spaces, blackmail. All parties involved must be consenting adults.

If you find any of this interesting please PM me. Let me know the best book you read during quarantine because I need recommendations.

Hope to hear from you soon!