I like guys who want to please. Those who get their own pleasure from providing pleasure, or service. I like guys who are kind and compassionate - who take a brownie to that cashier who seems overly stressed, in an effort to brighten their day. I like guys who are good at something. Confidence is sexy. Capable is sexy. Humility paired with confidence... gives me butterflies.

I like helping with the things that trouble you. I like snuggling and petting. I like being silly and I like long conversations about serious things.

I like long aimless road trips, exploring abandoned structures, museums, learning things, connecting with people. I like loud concerts and large crowds, as well as quiet days alone. I like adrenaline things.

I like feeling that I'm cherished and letting you know that you are cherished.

It turns out I also like the idea of torturing you with tease and denial. I like the idea of spanking that ass until it's bright red. I like the thought of controlling (denying?) your orgasms while you give me several.

I'm not fond of the thought of pegging, diapers or treating you like property. The idea of cuckolding makes me uncomfortable (but also a little turned on).

I abhor intolerance (racism, sexism, better-than-you-ism.) Trump and his devotees scare me.

I want to know what your kinks are, but I'm even more interested in learning about who you are: what are some of your favorite memories, what motivates you, who do you admire, what do you need most to feel good about who you are.

I live in Florida, but I travel the country for work. I'm not afraid to jump on a plane to meet you if it seems like we might get along. I'm a bigger girl, and I'm getting older every day, but I'm still rather pretty. I am fully single and have been for a while - I'm waiting on that right fit. While I would love to have a companion in my life (to tease and torture, adore and explore) I enjoy my own company so I'm not in a hurry to jump into just anything.

I look forward to chatting with you.

Edit: if you were born after 1994, my kids are older than you and it just won't work, I'm not interested in being a mommy. But I hope you all find someone who suits you well. Best wishes!

Also, I apologize for delays in responding - I didn't expect to get so many messages!