Hello,

I'm a 29 year-old male submissive living in Western North Carolina, in the region between Asheville, Charlotte, and Hickory. I'm looking for a Domme who is drawn to a dynamic of possession and control (within a play partnership; I am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic). Importantly, I'd like to meet someone relatively close to my age who is interested in building rapport and friendship alongside a kinky play relationship. In my experience, the deepest submission and the most powerful domination grows from a condition of mutual trust and mutual respect, so continuous and consistent communication is very important.

The non-kinky me:

• 5'10" with dark brown hair, brown eyes, and a generally intense demeanor. Toned and muscular build from regular weightlifting.
• Currently enrolled in graduate school. I have a reputation among my peer group for being brainy, and I can at least claim to be articulate.
• Employed and building up my savings.
• Conscientious and cordial almost to a fault. That being said, I am not a doormat or a pushover and I'm generally direct and assertive when the situation calls for it.
• I have a general interest in television and books with sci-fi themes, and I am an occasional gamer.

The kinky me:

• I have always played as a submissive, and I have experienced a few flavors of bdsm, including service submission, mild pain play, chastity, pegging, and some forms of protocol play. I have found a lot to like about many forms of D/s play and roleplay.
• I am quite the bondage fetishist (as is evident from my other posts). I love being tied up, so I'd be a great partner if you are an aspiring rigger.
• I'm willing to negotiate most things. I am only satisfied by kinky play if I know my dominant is enjoying herself, so I am open to experimenting with most forms of play according to my Domme's interests.

I'm not currently able to host, but I'm willing to meet in public or at public events for vetting purposes (I'm vaccinated, by the way), and in general I'm open to negotiation about most aspects of meeting up if we are able to talk through them and come to a mutual understanding. Safe and sane bdsm partners are more rare and precious than gold, so I'm willing to put in some work to find and keep one :). Feel free to get in touch if any of what I've said interests you; chats, messages, and polite comments are all welcome!

Happy hunting!