Hello r/femdompersonals! Submissive boy here looking for his forever mommy/wife. Here's a recent photo: https://imgur.com/Xx9V26L I'm 5'8" 240lbs and getting lighter everyday with my kettlebells and my noom app.

Current circumstances

I'm a respiratory therapist at a hospital on Maui. I came here for the job, and while the island itself is beautiful, cost of living is a little higher than I'd like and there's a few things I take for granted on the mainland that are pretty rare here on Maui. Throw into that being half an ocean away from most of the people who make my life meaningful, and barring a possibility of moving to Oahu, I have plans to relocate to the mainland before the end of the year.

Non-kinky interests

My major interests include learning languages (I speak Japanese pretty fluently, conversational in Mandarin and Spanish, and I know enough to get in trouble in a few others), Acting and singing(I've got a million characters and accents in my head, and my 1st major musical influence is probably Freddy Mercury), history, geography, critical thinking and epistemology. I like to cook all sorts of things, but lately I've had a bit of a penchant for one pot and slow cooker meals (love my instantpot) I'm really into being crafty and making my own whenever circumstances allow (I've made my own kimchi, my own rice based alcohol, my own charcoal, and I hope to pursue many other projects) Ideally, I'd like to have my own house out in the country where I can basically live off the land. I'm also a bit of a weeb and a gamer, but I'm enough of an adult to be at least slightly ashamed of those habits and minimize them. I'm a big animal lover, especially parrots.

Kinky interests/vision for the relationship

I would love to find that amazing loving, smothering, mommydom that wants to delve the very depths of depravity with me, but I feel that I'm kind of an outlier in that I genuinely want it within the context of a committed, loving, relationship that will ultimately turn into a lifelong marriage. I'm not looking to jump into anything right away and I want our relationship to be about more than just sex, but I genuinely feel like I could never really be happy with a woman who wasn't at least a bit of a degenerate herself. I will say I would LOVE to get pegged and practically have my future persons breasts shoved into the back of my throat. If this world were perfect, my person wouldn't just be my wife and my mommy, but she would also be my partner in creating a self-sustaining homestead in the country, living off the land and creating our own little slice of paradise.

Pluses but not requirements

being into combat sports/martial arts

being into weight training

being taller/stronger than me

wants to learn to speak another language or can teach me one

likes trying new and unfamiliar food

atheist or at least doesn't see religion as important

Requirements

between 24 and 50 years old

Loving, somewhat smothering and very physically affectionate