Hey sweetie,

I hope you're doing well. I'm a little stressed right now and am looking for a cutie to help me relax. Ideally I would like to start a vanilla type conversation to get to know you and then move towards the BDSM realm. My ideal partner would be someone with whom I can lay the foundations for a long-term daily Femdom, but vanilla presenting relationship, who would be up for attending events from sit down dinners to munches with me. (Heads up, I like public teasing and would probably be whispering all kinds of naughty things in your ear and you would be required to keep a straight face ♡).

I'm going to stop you here to stress that I am looking for something long term. I know this might be a little too intense for an ad on reddit but I am looking to get married and have a couple of kids in the next few years so if this isn't you, you needn't continue reading.

About my personality, I like cooking, cuddles, food, and lots of attention. In the vanilla world I'm generally viewed as a kind hearted person with a dominant personality/very liberal and opinionated, and a bad tendency to make enough food to feed a small army. I also tend to laugh a lot and am the person people naturally confide in. In the BDSM world, I am still viewed as someone incredibly kind and caring, however I do have a bit of a sadistic streak and high standards for my submissives. My number one expectation is that you want to be there and therefore that you will put in the effort to be the best you can be by listening to me and doing your own research on our interests. I am looking for someone to help me relax, not someone who will be more work, so if you're looking for someone to micromanage your life, that isn't me.

Now that that has been said, aesthetically I am 1m70 (5'7), white, curvy, and have been called pretty with a Colgate smile and L'Oreal hair. If you need more information then you better impress me enough that we meet in person.

What I'm looking for is: - emotional intelligence, kindness, and caring - physically attractive (this is incredibly subjective so don't let your silly self-doubt stop you because of this) - single with no kids - smart and politically liberal (by North American standards) - successful in your job and ambitious - 180m or above and muscular, I'm a strong woman and like to test my strength with a little tussle from time to time. Please do not interpret this as me liking bratty behaviour, I WILL take you down and punish you for it (different than funishment). - short hair and well groomed - can give me the attention and love that I need - between 28 and 34 years old

So basically if you're a smart and kind ex jock living your ambitions and happen to be caring, open minded, and want to settle down, we should get along just fine. ♡

In terms of sexual preferrences, I'm very into pegging, mental play, teasing, humiliation, and impact play, however I'm generally open to most things and always excited to try something new. I do have a few exceptions to the above sexual preferrences. These include, but are not limited to: scat, blood, drugs, smoking of all kind, anything illegal, needles, scarrification, and generally using sharp objects in the bedroom. I have a fair amount of experience in domination and I am happy to guide you if we click. I have a bit of a thing for dominating natural leaders so if you're new to this you're still welcome as long as you're not just trying to test it out.

This might be a little much based on the locations and ages of others who have posted here but let's see what we get shall we?