There’s something reassuring about knowing you can go to your Domme with your problems and she’ll help you sort them out or give you encouragement to figure them out on your own. You’d like to know you’re pleasing to your Lady. You can’t help but smile when you see a message from her, and blush when the message is telling you to do something naughty. You enjoy challenging yourself and being praised for your progress and put sternly in your place when you slack off. You are mature, in control of your own life, but know that a little extra guidance would go a long way to fulfilling you. You have a good sense of humor and don’t take yourself or your setbacks too seriously.

If this describes you I’d love to hear from you. I’m looking primarily in the continental US, the south is preferable as that’s where I’m from, and I want us to be open to meeting in real life at some point. We’ll take our time, but it has to be a possibility. 18 is a given, 21 is preferred. Hangouts and Discord are my main chatting platforms. I don’t care what you’re relationship status is as long as you have the option to eventually meet if we hit it off. You don't have to be an Adonis, but it has to be obvious you respect and take care of yourself.

Single line replies show a lack of effort. You don’t have to write a novel, but please tell me about yourself. I like to know if our interests mesh. Some good questions to answer would be:

Where are you from and how old are you?

What are your hobbies outside of the Internet and redditing?

What got you interested in femdom and what’s your experience been like so far with it?

What’s your ultimate femdom fantasy?

Please put your replies in letter form, have decent spelling and punctuation, and call me Miss or Lady Ruby at first. Typos won't count against you as I had to go back and edit this. (Apparently my brain thinks "and" doesn't need the d on the end)

A little about me: I’m 35, poly, tall(5’9), slim, a gym rat and a book nerd. I enjoy reading almost everything but my favorite genres are horror and science fiction. I’m a gamer, enjoy Overwatch mostly here lately, but my favorite games are the Bioshock Series and the most recent game I played that wasn’t overwatch was the newest Far Cry.

I’m literate, enjoy writing and some rp when the opportunity presents itself. I’m a Pro Domme but not looking for a client on here, just a personal sub so I’m not after your wallet. That’s not to say I don’t enjoy gifts, but I’d much prefer a story written by you to anything you could buy.

I’m mostly interested in a gentle femdom experience for now, with edging, training, joi, giving tasks. We can exchange more kinky information in PMs. I’m not in a hurry. I want us to really get to know each other and decide if we’re compatible.