Hey! I’m a very gentle and empathetic guy looking to try a relationship type that I think has always been right for me, I just didn’t know. Silly societal norms and expectations make it hard to know yourself sometimes, but I’ve done some really good work on that.

I’ve only ever been with partners who were submissive, so I always have done my best to fill the dominant role. But I’ve really gotten to know myself better the last couple years, and I know now that that’s not genuinely who I am! I realize I’ve always been a little bit jealous that they got to be submissive. It feels really thrilling and natural to me to sit back and let someone else be in charge. I want to be the small and cute one!

I’m looking for something that’s either online or in person here in Montreal. I’m really focused on exploring and trying new things right now. I’m naturally curious in life and have lots of hobbies! I’m always working on some project or learning a new skill. And that extends to the bedroom too, I’ve got lots of kinky ideas and one of my best qualities is my creativity!

I’ve gotten really good at communication and vulnerability over the last couple years and I’m excited to open up with someone in this dynamic. Feeling seen is probably the most special feeling out there, I crave that and want to find it.

More about some kinks I’m interested in: praise, humiliation, bi, feminization?, emasculation, feeling small and cute, pegging?, and a lot more I’m sure. I’m very open minded and love directness.

Besides that, I can share that I’m 5’10 and slim athletic! I’m only 150 lbs but I am stronger than I look haha. I wear glasses and have brown hair, so a bit of a nerdy look I suppose. I’m patient, calm and an overall very positive person.

There are a few personality traits that I think would work well for me in a partner, but I’m not too inclined to build up an idea too much, I want to meet folks and see how it feels. Overall, if you’re direct, confident and willing to push my boundaries a bit, I think that’s a great start. Empathy and compassion go a long way too.

Looking forward to hearing from you ☺️