Hi there :)

Apologies for any formatting issues, I'm on mobile.

About me:

I'm seeking a switch or sub with the intention to meet in person and develop a monogamous relationship and exclusive dynamic.

I am demisexual and new-ish to femdom, so I lack in experience. But, I do my best to research and would like someone who understands and can take it slow.

Physical: 5'0", black hair, dark brown eyes and pale skin. Mixed. Curvy/plus-sized. Slight aversion to shaving, I don't do it very often.

Non-physical: 23 yrs, college graduate. Progressive and open-minded ideology. I enjoy singing, fine arts, performing arts, romantic comedies, hiking, food, new places, and fun activities.

About you:

A sub-leaning switch or service sub. Mid to late 20s, college educated.

Physical: preferably under 6'. Clean-shaven or minimal body and short facial hair (yes, I'm a hypocrite in that dept lol)

Non-physical: Single and monogamous. Similar ideology. Seeking emotional connection as well. Willing/able to travel and host when the time comes.

Dynamic:

I am NOT looking for a simple play partner or kink dispenser. Therefore, I don't expect anyone to contact me with those intentions either.

I want a relationship/emotional bond and exclusivity before diving into anything sexual. So, if you are unable to handle weeks or more of casual conversations and buildup, then you should leave now. Otherwise, include the word turtle in your first message.

I'm hoping for a publicly vanilla relationship with some subtle domme aspects (think hand gestures, a "collar", and repetitive acts of service)

I think of myself as a soft or gentle domme with a possible mean streak. I enjoy the idea of relentless teasing (physical and verbal) and making a man cry (with pleasure... most of the time).

My daydream is someone who's controlled and confident in their day-to-day but turns into a puddle when I say so. I'd love to walk over while you're reading a book, toss it aside, and rough you up for a few mins then walk away. Or request your services when I'm in the mood with little chance of reciprocation.

In a more vanilla tone, I'd like to have your head in my lap while I play with your hair. Or wake up to breakfast and my favorite tea because I almost never make it for myself.

If you like visuals, I'd say r/SensualFemdom has a lot of my fave posts.

Receiving Kinks:

oral fixation & body worship, breast & nipple play, pounding, facesitting, heavy foreplay, acts of service

Giving Kinks:

tease & denial, edging, overstimulation, ruined orgasms, milking, orgasm control, light bondage & blindfolds

Others (curious/open to):

CBT, sounding, markings (giving), pegging, CFNM, shibari

Hard limits:

Blood & body fluids, cucking & groups, crossdressing, age players, anything illegal or risks physical harm.

If there's something I haven't mentioned, feel free to ask for clarification.

I think that's pretty much it. Send me a chat request and tell me about yourself (SFW pics are a plus!) and any questions you may have. If we click, then we can move to Discord.

I will do my best to respond to everyone, but I will not respond to DMs, low-effort messages, and those who do not meet the requirements in the 'About you' section.

Talk to you soon!