I'm looking for a sub for an online dynamic only. I totally get people wanting an IRL dynamic and that most people want to start online and then move to IRL but I want to emphasise that I'm just looking for online.

A bit about me, I'm 28, too close to 29, happy enough with how my life is going. It always seems strange to just list things about myself so I'm going to say some random things about myself. I have no pets but would very much like to get a dog. I'm a big cook and baker, hoping to do more experimentation and learning this year to get better. I'm trying to get into meditating in the mornings, just really need to commit to doing it. I hate coffee, it makes me absolutely paranoid and for me the taste just isn't worth it

As a Domme I am more on the gentle side but still strict and form. I'm not a cliche dominatrix with whips and chains expecting immediate service but I'm also not a pushover. Also on that note, to save the questions, I'm not looking for money or gifts to make this dynamic work. No tributes, no sneaky costs, no terms and conditions, no giving me your first born child. Promise.

In terms of the kind of sub that I'm looking for I'd like someone who is kind, caring, loyal, committed, creative, open, fun, and slutty. I don't need you to have had loads of experience before, once you know that this is what you want to do. I have no issue if you're a switch but I am not so I'd need you to be fully submissive in this dynamic. Random things that I like are rugby guys, a tradie, a doctor/nurse, someone that has a dog. I'm usually not into guys with long hair

For how I like the dynamic to go, I prefer photo and video tasks and like being able to chat to my sub as well. Get to know them outside of just doing tasks and serving, so having a personality outside of "dom me pls" is needed. Live sessions on Skype aren't really my thing

Now for deal breakers before you read much further and get excited. Timezones are the big one. I'm in the GMT timezone so ones that are too far on either side of that tend to be difficult to work with. I'm not saying it's a definite no, but Australia, West Coast US, and India are all places I've struggled with before. I do love an Australian accent though so.....

People that are married or in a relationship also present issues to please tell me straight away if that's the case so that we're able to work around it or see if it's sustainable. Again it's not an immediate deal breaker but I don't want it to be a surprise down the line

For kinks that are deal breakers or limits for me, I really don't like feminisation or sissification. It does absolutely nothing for me and I've tried it before so I won't be doing it in this dynamic. I'm not into any play with feet either, worshipping or interacting with them, but recently the image of a guy in just some tight boxers and white socks is really sexy to me, so who knows what that's about. Cucking or anything that is overly reliant on IRL play doesn't do anything for me either, I just don't want a reliance to be in fantasy

For kinks that I really enjoy, I'll list some and then go into others in more detail. Edging, self explanatory. Assplay, again probably self explanatory. Also probably a deal breaker if it's not something you can do. JOI/cum control Humping/grinding, just very sexy and desperate Underwear, love all types just not females as mentioned above. Playing in them, showing off, choosing what ones you can wear. Watersports. I think there's a really fun level of control with this one and it can be really fun to see a sub so desperate to pee too I love a sub who can deepthroat, the messiness and sluttiness of it is incredibly hot Micromanagement is one that can work really well or not at all I've found. Getting to decide little things about your day, having you check in, taking away little bits of your control. For this one it'll be seeing how we get on and what we can make work with the dynamic. In this I also see trying to help you with goals such as eating well or working out etc. I also really like a guy with sensitive nipples. Having toys is a plus but it's not a deal breaker and while I'll be happy to help you buy toys and be an encouragement, it's not something I'll force.

I want to know that you're serious about this. So I don't want to see any low effort messages or copy and paste ones. I want to know about you. Your age, where you're based, what makes you a good sub, a bit about you, your kinks, limits, etc. A photo would be nice but I know reddit has stopped that feature before the chat is accepted. Sometimes people can attach an imgur link or reference one on their profile. Not a necessity though. Please also include your favourite fictional character. The two worlds I know best are Harry Potter or Friends (basic I know) so bonus points if it's one of those. If you're not a big reader/watcher then tell me your favourite food.

What I don't want is one line messages. "Can you be my mommy" "hey" "I'm such an obedient slut". Put in more effort, talk with more than your dick. If you text "can I ask you a question" I would like to formally welcome you to the FemdomCommunity subreddit where they should be happy to help. I'm much more likely to forget a direct message so chats would be preferred.

I've done this before and I've met some great subs and some that I'd really love to reconnect with. I'm going to leave some clues below and if you're one of them let me know. I will be asking questions to make sure so don't waste my time and text saying "I think we've spoken before" if it's not true and you can't prove it. Jess - great at photography Jack - Irish lawyer Seth - great roleplayer Stefan - very kinky Jabjab - just hope you're alright

It's tough finding a domme and it's equally as tough finding a sub, but hopefully this could be the start of something fun. Fingers crossed for some good messages, and please give me time to try and sort through them and get back to people