Hello and Happy Wednesday - thanks so much for stopping by 🤭

I am an AFAB Enby person looking to make a new connections in the community! I currently have a partner and a submissive online but I am poly - I am not looking for an exclusive connection. I am pansexual and demisexual as well - I do not have any interest in quick sexual exchanges. I am after friendship before anything else.

Connection is important to me - I want to meet people that are interested in forming a bond and not just looking for a kink dispenser or to be used as a kink dispenser.

A little about me:

• passionate, creative, and driven - I’ve always got some project on the go - I’m always looking for some good drawing prompts so if you’ve got ideas, I’d love to hear them!
• poly, partnered, and happy! - I am very happily in a relationship and this is not going to affect or change that
• I love to work on myself and learn new things! I’m always reading something interesting and I stick to a pretty strict routine - I’m not going to be up half the night and I’m not always endlessly available.
• I am love to learn and read! Love to keep my brain busy

About kinky me:

• I am a dominant leaning switch
• I am currently in a 24/7 dynamic as a service submissive to my partner, and in an online dynamic where I am the Dominant
• I am most interested in tasks, mental domination, and someone who can add something to my life. I am not a kink dispenser and I will not accept someone who is looking for one.
• I am not interested in sexual play of any kind; if you are only interested in orgasm control, pegging, or anything like that I will not be a good fit for you - I only participate in sexual acts with people I am romantically involved with
• If you claim to not have any limits, we will not be a good fit. I don’t mind people being new but knowing what your limits are and aren’t is an important thing

Who I’m looking for:

• a submissive or switch between the ages of 30-45 with some experience in kink - no exceptions on the age
• someone poly or single - I do not have any interest in someone who is going behind their partners back
• someone who understands that reciprocal effort is important - I have no interest in being the driving force behind every single interaction.
• time zone doesn’t really matter but if you’re closer to EST we will likely have similar schedules
• someone who knows what they want and what their intentions are - I do not want to rush but I do want to know what I am getting into. I do not want someone who just wants to get into a dynamic without any thought about it
• someone who is willing to have conversations that are not just about kink! I want to be friends as well - I feel like it makes for the best play if we are to progress that far -someone interested in voice and video chats! I’ve usually got a decent amount of time throughout the day ☺️
• someone willing to be honest, open, and communicate with me. I do not tolerate people who aren’t willing to have the hard talks and work as a team.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, feel free to send me a DM! I would love to hear about something you are passionate about and what you hope to get out of a new connection ☺️

Looking forward to hearing from you soon!