Quick TL;DR

I’m a generally shy and nerdy guy. I’ve had the absolute pleasure of being around strong and driven women all my life and therefore I truly admire them. I’m looking for a caring type partner who is invested in me as a person overall outside of any sort of sexual dynamic that may form. While that dynamic may be an end goal, I’m always happy to meet new people and make friends along the way, so feel free to just say hi if that’s what you would like!

If that at all interests you, I hope you’ll read on. Also consider reading this previous personal post (which has the same information and a little more) and What I Would Like from a Femdom/Role Reversal Relationship Revised. Or perhaps consider this sonnet about pegging that you may find fun and silly.

Okay, here's some things about me.

As mentioned I'm pretty shy and nerdy. Among my hobbies, perhaps my most present are gaming and baking. Those take up a lot of my time. In fact, I will frequently share photos of the things that I'm baking or cooking if we end up talking for some time. I usually like to have a batch of baked treats such as cookies to snack on too. Other hobbies include board/card/tabletop games. Like anyone, hanging out with friends, movies, TV also take up my leisure time too. Favorite shows include Futurama, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Brooklyn 99 for and The Grand Budapest Hotel, Good Will Hunting, Donnie Darko, The Wind Rises for movies.

I’m also a musician. I play the violin. Music is very important to me and is one of the things that I could ramble on and on about if you let me. I think that without music (and art as a whole), life would simply be dull and gray.

I’m about 5’7” and caucasian. I have brown, curly hair that I don’t get much longer than a few inches before I get a trim. I wear round-framed glasses that sit in front of hazel eyes (not quite just green and not quite just brown). I have a pretty average body type, I think, but still pretty much a dad bod. I’ve been told I have a soft voice as well. If we decide to pursue anything beyond friendship, physical attraction is important to me so we can exchange photos if and when we feel comfortable (usually within a few days I'll be comfortable, but please ask if you'd like to bring it up).

As far as kinks go, if you found this, then we probably have some in common. It’s probably not that hard to figure some out from my previous posts. We can talk about that privately if you would like, but I’m pretty open on answering questions if you ask them, as well as stating if I’m not comfortable doing so.

If you don’t know what to talk about if you decide to reach out, here’s a fun ice breaker that I like to use: If you had a window that could look into Earth's history at any point in time, what is one of the first things you'd use it for?

With all of that down, I hope to hear from you soon! :)